Nonetheless, Raise Smart Kid (2015)
had a different perception regarding permissive parenting. Their article
explained that kids who are allowed by parents to decide and take a great part
in managing their lives have the capacity to determine and make the best
pathway for themselves. Prolific and resourceful minds come from teenagers who
do not limit themselves on the barrier of the knowledge that their parents have
set standards upon. Some parents who let their children discover their dreams,
go after those, and seek it have gotten their lucks and had children who became
successful and happy until their adult stages. Steve Jobs, Bill Gates and Mark
Zuckerberg are just some of the commodities of this kind of parenting.
Seeing that a few children with
lenient parents have become the commanders of their own destiny, this case
opened up to a conclusion that parental approach that focuses on toleration
results to much bliss and minor psychological problems.
a different perspective, the article has also enumerated some of the
disadvantages of this parenting style –that despite the freedom and
independence that were given to them, children might just resort to friends and
academy administrators in times when they need someone to talk to about their
problems and ease whatever pain they’re feeling.
writer had made a conclusion regarding the bad effects of permissive parenting.
Poulsen (2017) has gotten into detail and discussed the concept of the parents’
ideas in too much granting of wants of their children so as to expecting that
they will eventually grow and be productive as persons of the future. Moreover,
he told that parents conceptualize that through non-strict parenting, their
offspring will have more sense of assent and approval of themselves and
therefore will pave way for them to blossom and do well to at the better
version of themselves. Realizations from the article left a statement that
non-strict parenting can be a beginning of snowball effect of better parenting
styles. On the other hand, it was also said that it holds a lot of season to
hone a child’s positivity.
like products of strict parenting, children who have grown in a non-strict
environment also feel the fright that if ever they burst out, it will take time
to calm them and bring back the control that they have established. Due to lesser limitations, self-control and
self-restraint will be a bit hard to develop. They can also suffer from anxiety
and uncertainty out of comparison between the care of other’s parents and
theirs that if not taken into consideration, will damage quite a part in their